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Charity of the Day:  Boykin Spaniel Rescue
If you're looking for a worthy cause this spring, why not consider Boykin Spaniel Rescue, Inc.  This dedicated group Boykin Spaniel Rescue, Inc. (BSR, Inc.) is an organization dedicated to re-homing unwanted or neglected purebred Boykin Spaniels. Each Boykin placed by BSR receives veterinary care and a temperament evaluation prior to placement in an adoptive home as well as being spayed or neutered. Based primarily in the southeastern USA, BSR, Inc. is growing into a national network of volunteers who regularly contact their area shelters and veterinarian offices for Boykins that need help. As of November 13, 2000, BSR, Inc. became officially incorporated and has received 501(c)3 status as a tax-exempt entity. BSR, Inc. operates solely on volunteer labor and from adoption fees and generous donations from those concerned for our Little Brown Dogs.

Visit www.boykinrescue.org for more information. 

 

 

 

ADVENTURE UNLEASHED:  MY LIFE WITH BOYKIN SPANIELS

 

Boykin Spaniel Rescue
The question of 'collar and leash' has always haunted me a bit, so much so that I tend to make an apology when slipping a leash on the dog or a halter on a horse.
To my mind, it's rather like convincing the groom at a wedding that an ill-fitting tuxedo will be a temporary restriction.
As a result, I am the proud occupant of a farm with horses who follow me like dogs and dogs who run around like canine royalty.
Without the usual scrutiny of neighbors or the demands of a well-travelled road, our life beyond the blacktop consists of daily walks to the river, morning checks to the horses, and office time punctuated by the playful nibbling of Miss Skittles, our two year old Boykin female who came to us afraid of life itself.
I didn't read the papers that came with Skittles when she arrived at our house and, in retrospect, I didn't want to know.
She was found at a primitive kennel outside of Chicago, the victim of a puppy mill, with matted hair, open wounds, an ear infection, worms, and a bleeding nose and feet from pushing against the confines of a wire cage.
Even worse, perhaps, was her demeanor, one of pure fright, skepticism, mistrust, and scurrying to eat what she could and then scamper away fast.
The first day at our house, she hid behind a cabinet, wouldn't relieve herself if anyone could see her and scurried to and fro looking for scraps of food.
It was, in short, heartbreaking.
"We've got to inspire her," my husband, ever the pragmatist, said. And so we began, just pretending that there was no elephant (or in this case, neurotic Boykin) in the room.
In those days, if you looked at Skittles, she would drop to the ground, wag her tail, wet the floor, and cower, employing every survival skill she had mastered to keep you from kicking or yelling at her.
Our response to this had to be one of positive disinterest. We taught her to sit, with lavish praise, and gave her a task the moment we encountered her. We looked away and did not acknowledge her if she was acting too submissive. No begging allowed! Just friendly good will, daily walks, and the discovery that she would sneak over a hill behind a brush pile for her time alone, very ladylike and prim.
It worked.
Four months later, Skittles is a turbo-charged dog of action. She swims every day in the creek, enthusiastically conducts solo adventures while we are in hearing range, and spends her evenings daintily cleaning her paws and showing a hilarious set of pearly white teeth.
"SKITTLES!" We announce playfully. And she responds with an enthusiastic wagging of her tail and a glee-inspiring, all for fun, snarl.
The interplay of dogs and humans, for better or worse, is perhaps the most basic kind of conversation, a primal sitting at the fire of life.
And for the dogs of rescue, the question of a scratch on the ear or an unspeakable act of greed and cruelty, is ultimately one that will either elevate or degrade our sense of what it is to be both humane and human. We must undo what those of our tribe have done so poorly.
So Skittles is a new dog and I am a new woman. Each day with her clarifies my thinking, makes me glad to be alive, confirms that I did the right thing by letting her into my life.
To see her running through the woods is a total delight, the confluence of a dynamic ball of energy and an innate sense of purpose. Skittles leaps over trees, dashes across hillsides, takes to the water, flushes turkey at a moment's notice and then sits, laughing, at my feet.
No leash required.

Copyright 2008 by Donna L.M. Khan for the express use of Boykin Spaniel Rescue, Inc.
   

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